How much love does one deserve? Seems like a slippery slope towards expectation and upset. If an infant cannot satisfy what we deserve - at what point does it become mandatory for a child or adult? What of the Epstein didnt kill himself ugly Christmas sweater that we are free to give but actually don't "deserve" anything in return? Perhaps we are free to shape most relationships to be beneficial and are free to leave most of the relationships when they are not.